Consider the 'set' behind Russell's Paradox:
R = { x | x is a set and x ∉ x }
in light of Cantor's definition of set ("aggregate"/Menge) in his CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE FOUNDING OF THE THEORY OF TRANSFINITE NUMBERS (Dover edition),
By an 'aggregate'...we are to understand any collection into a whole... M of definite and separate objects m of our intuition or our thought. These objects are called the 'elements' of M.
One should note that in this definition, 'objecthood' is primary.
Considering R once again, R certainly has elements and according to Cantor's definition of set can definitely be considered one. Let me now ask the question that leads us into Russell's Paradox:
"Is R a member of R?"
Because R has elements, it can definitely be considered a 'definite and separate object of our intuition or our thought' and as such can seemingly have certain attributes satisfying it and others not satisfying it.
Russell's Paradox is that assuming 'R is not a member of R' implies 'R is a member of R', which implies again 'R is not a member of R'.
Since R's 'objecthood' is primary, why doesn't it make sense to say that R can neither have the attributes '__ is a member of R', nor not-'__ is a member of R' correctly attributed to it? If this is the case then Russell's Paradox is dissolved, since it is the assumption that R must satisfy either '__ is a member of R' or not-'__ is a member of R' that seemingly gets us into the paradox to begin with.