A number is an abstract thing. It doesn't exist independently of a thought about it.
For example a cat... . A cat can exist without a human observing it - ask the mouse! Or think about Brontosaurus. But a number is abstract - you can compare a basket with 3 bananas and a box with 3 letters, and the common thing among them is, that there are 3 elements.
But if you imagine a monkey, deciding between a basket of 3 bananas and another one with 4 - does he have an idea of the number 3, and does he see a connection to 3 strawberries? Or can he divide 3 bananas to 3 monkey childs?
I'm not sure, but most scientists assume today, that in the great universe, there is more live - not only on earth, and more intelligent species have been evolved, and they will need numbers as well to reason about their world.
See how numbers exist in different cultures, and how they were early used to document ownership. There are different number systems, and not everybody invented the zero, but see how fluently the most potent system was adopted elsewhere. The names of the numbers are convention, but not the numbers themselves.
Think about, how the numbers of electrons and protons determine the atoms.
H2O
Does an Oxygen atom observe the 2 Hydrogen atoms, or is water only existent, if there is an observer? It's a funny thing to do the brain experiment about observers, but it leads to nothing. If you apply the idea of the necessity of an observer, the whole idea of an objective reality breaks apart, but it takes everything with it and leads to nowhere.
Most things aren't observed non stop but only occasionally or in part or the surface or effects from them or have been observed or might get observed in the future. There is no useful application for the idea, that things stop existing, while you're not looking, listening, smelling, feeling, …