I can't help you with the first part of your quesitonquestion, but this is how I explain the second to my students:
I stand at the front of the class, and I flip a coin. Each time I do so, I look at the coin and I tell them that it has come down heads. I do this 10 times. At first they pay little attention, but by the 10th flip thatthey are all amused, and have obviously figured out that I am lying to them. How have they done this? Well, if I were telling the truth, itsit's very unlikely that a fair coin would come down heads 10 times in a row.
What they are doing is ana hypothesis test. Their (implicit) null hypothesis is:
H0: there is a 50% chance of heads and 50% chance of tails, and that I am telling them which it is each time.
The likelihood of getting 10 heads in a row is 1/1,024 (or the liklihoodlikelihood of getting 10 of the same in a row is 1/512). As this is a very small probability, they decide to reject H0. They all do this without having come across hypothesis testing before.
Now consider a different situation.
I toss the coin, look at it, and tell them either heads or tails. I do this and tell them 4 heads and 6 tails. I do this irrespective of which way the coin actaullyactually comes down.
4 heads and 6 tails is a perfectly unremarkable result from a fair coin, and so they have no evidence to accuse me of lying again. However, I have lied. It doesn't matter how the coin comes down, I always tell them 4 heads and 6 tails. So while they have no evidence to reject the null, itsit's also not really evidence to accept it either.