Everything is a frame for how we love others, love thought broadly enough. When this is turned inside out, it can become grotesque.
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That doesn't mean we don't love anymore, though maybe we don't in the manner we wanted or even anticipated; such are grotesque things.
http://groteskology.blogspot.com/2013/09/the-grotesques-of-luttrell-psalter.html
If you want to do it the old fashioned way...
Put another way, it sounds like you aren't in love anymore. Best to leave them, and use your last piece of love to do that.