You are asking — as usual — a subtle question.
And — as usual — I dont fully understand it 😀.
But I see some fallacies that we could open up.
Fallacy 1
You say "human societies" as though these things exist.
Do they?
Or is it some 21 century unicorn?
Of course most people would find it absurd to deny "society".
Just as it is nowadays fashionable (in circles like this site) to affirm God.
But to affirm society is to — at least possibly — commit a reification fallacy — Sure we see human individuals, one, ten, maybe a thousand in a stadium or rock concert. But society as a whole: What is the validity and basis for assuming such a concept?
As an extreme example of a reification error that everyone commits we can take the non dual teacher Ramana Maharshi. He said: Mind? What is mind? There is no such thing. There are only thoughts. (If you like) you can call the bundle of thoughts as "mind". The main thing is that there is a bundle of thoughts and of all thoughts there is a root thought — "I".2
The implication being that reifying thoughts into a higher order construct called mind was a source of more problems and confusion than a help.
He went further: When someone asked him question specifically regarding "psychology", he retorted: Why do you analyze the garbage you want to throw out?
Fallacy 2
The fallacy around God's putative existence is even more fundamental: What do you mean by God? Different people mean very very different things.
eg. Hindus don't see it meaningful to worship the creator — Brahma.
The preserver — Vishnu — is more liked but mostly in his active descents, Rama and Krishna who were mighty warriors — not very “preservatory!” And Shiva — the destroyer — is universally worshiped.
Speaking generally God as a concept can at the least be placed anywhere on the spectrum
Guy-in-the-sky → being → entity → laws/principles → Nature
In short, almost all atheist-theist arguments are crude, gross examples of the equivocation fallacy — just people talking (or shouting) past each other.
Going outside the system (Matrix)
As for the fact that understanding the system — the universe1 — from the outside pov without being able to go outside being impossibly hard yet very important: Yes that is a profound observation. But there is a glimmer of hope — Riemann's geometry leading to Einstein's relativity.
In normal geometry we can understand planes and lines because we can sit outside in 3-D space. How can we understand 3-D "from the outside" when we cant sit outside 3-D space. That "miracle" is what Riemann and Minkowski worked out mathematically before Einstein could do the physics. So I take it that it is hard but not impossible.
A curious, maverick book length description of this is Tertium Organum. It starts with basic geometry, goes through psychology, and thence to spirituality.
1 Another universally held reification error:
Everyone who denies God, affirms the universe.
As though it definitively exists.
Has anyone seen the universe???
Heck people have never even seen the solar system... just diagrams and simulations
2 Since this is in answer to "The Matrix Equation balance", here's a one line summary of Ramana's teaching: Study, abide, cling, cleave, love that I-thought over all others — I guarantee you it will take you out of the Matrix. Of course he used more traditional Hindu terminology for "matrix" like "maya"