The law of non-contradiction is alleged to be neither verifiable nor falsifiable, on the grounds that any proof or disproof must use the law itself prior to reaching the conclusion. In other words, in order to verify or falsify the laws of logic one must resort to logic as a weapon, an act which is argued to be self-defeating.
This is no quite true.
The law of contradiction, which says that a contradiction is false, is one of the fundamental assumptions which defines logical reasoning. We can choose to ignore it and pretend that we can still reason logically but this is just equivocation. Together with the law of identity and the law of excluded middle, the law of contradiction defines logical reasoning. This is so because these assumption are fundamental. Fundamental here means that we recognise that we cannot choose to ignore these laws and still reason logically. We can always pretend otherwise, but this would be equivocation. This is playing with toy logic while pretending to do real logic.
Since the early 20th century, certain logicians have proposed logics that deny the validity of the law.
Words are cheap and anyone can pretend to reason logically while ignoring the law of contradiction. Too bad. If you ignore the fundamental laws of logic, how are you going to reason logically? Do you really play chess if you choose to ignore the rules of chess? We cannot stop anyone pretending they have a logic based on denying the validity of the law of contradiction, but this is just equivocation, and equivocation is bad logic.
So reading this article on Wikipedia we are told that we can't disprove or prove this law, so what are the means to know if a logic system, alternative logic system that add or removes logical laws, is valid or not and what are the different validity criterias and norms used to verify if a logic system is true, valid or useful?
Any system which ignores any of the fundamental laws of logic is not a logic system, and therefore irrelevant to human logic.
Such systems should be regarded as mathematical systems, not logical ones. They can only be logical systems in name only. Good mathematics, possibly, not good formal logic. Not at all.